Question 1

There is so much emotion and we don't get along...can this work for us?

Accepted Answer

We recognize the high emotion that comes with the life change and have a great deal of experience in facilitating effective, respectful communication.  While our process is not for everyone, we have found that when two people come to the table and see the financial benefit of the process, the mutual goals we establish create a space that is not "you vs. me" but has a unified approach to moving forward in the most "win/win" way possible.

Question 2

Is our mediation process really cheaper than divorce?

Accepted Answer

Yes, on average our Clients save $15,000 by working with our process rather than pursuing litigation. The main drivers of those savings are due to lack of attorney fees, and more efficient communication that results in less billable hours. Additionally, our unique process streamlines the road to settlement in a way that requires far less investment of both time and money.

Question 3

Will this process count as court ordered mediation?

Accepted Answer

Yes, however, if you end up going to court over unresolved issues your judge may order those issues to be mediated once in the court process.

Question 4

Can I still obtain legal advice?

Accepted Answer

Yes, we encourage it! Using attorneys on an “unbundled” basis is strongly suggested. ("Unbundled" legal services are when you use an attorney more as a legal coach rather than speaking for you in court and in mediation).

Question 5

If I need an attorney can you refer me to one?

Accepted Answer

Yes, absolutely!  We have a strong network of trustworthy attorneys that we can refer you to, and you can always attend a DAC Divorce Seminar (www.divorceadvicecolorado.com)to find a wealth of trustworthy experts who can help you during this process.

Question 6

What is a CDFA?

Accepted Answer

A certified divorce financial analyst is a trained financial professional who can help you get the fairest deal you can. They ensure that your assets will be divided fairly and that you won't be shortchanging yourself when negotiating a divorce settlement. Their areas of expertise include anything that may affect your long-term financial picture, such as:
 • Maintenance or child support
 • Dividing personal vs. marital property
 • Determining the future value of retirement and pension funds(https://www.thebalance.com/pension-funds-definition-list-and-issues-3305875)
 • Calculating any divorce payments
 • Divorce tax law

Question 7

Is there anyone who is not suitable for your process?

Accepted Answer

Situations involving high conflict with violence, deceit and abuse are not suitable for our process, or if there is a large power imbalance in the relationship.  Our process is for couples that are able to advocate for themselves and communicate with each other in a respectful, honest manner who want to work out their divorce settlement as peacefully as possible.

Question 8

We are doing this late in life- is your team familiar with that scenario?

Accepted Answer

Our team is very familiar with the anxiety and fear caused by facing a divorce in your later years.  We have assisted many divorcing couples approaching retirement by projecting their cash flow needs using available retirement and other assets. We utilize these tools in the negotiation process so that the resulting settlement feels fair to both parties and each are set up for future success.

Question 9

We have special needs children - can your process still help us navigate our path?

Accepted Answer

We recognize that some families have children with special needs that require extra care and attention when planning for their post divorce families,( i.e. caregivers, estate planning, and government benefit planning) and have navigated these roads with many families.

Question 10

What if we get down to the end and can't agree on everything?

Accepted Answer

On the rare occasion that all items are not agreed upon, the bulk of the settlement is complete with significant cost savings. If there are a few outstanding items remaining, couples can pursue legal options while retaining all they have accomplished, as well as their significant time and financial savings.

Question 11

How often does the process end in resolution without any uncontested issues?

Accepted Answer

Almost all the time.  Our process is very successful because we have a careful, detailed intake process to make sure that you and your spouse are a good match for successful resolution.  In the event that you are not a good match for our process, we can provide you (and your attorney) with tax and financial insight while you prepare and negotiate your litigated case.

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Divorce Mediation Services

Our unique Divorce Mediation process saves you time and money

Monthly Divorce Boot Camp

The settlement is finalized, the negotiation is over, it's time for your next financial chapter

Divorce Preview

Get a sneak peek into your divorce journey and prepare for the road ahead with our preview service

Annual Tune-Up

The quick, easy way to revaluate and update mediated settlements

Settlement Prep/Proposal Package

Professionally composed for attorney mediation or DIY Divorce

Wealth Management & Retirement

The settlement is finalized, the negotiation is over, it's time for your next financial chapter

"Get Your Ducks in a Row"

Reclaiming your financial road forward and positioning you for your next right step

Free Intake Consultation

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Ready to transform your divorce into a journey of clarity and resolution? Take the first step toward a dignified transition—reach out today and start building a brighter future.

Divorce
Mediation
Services

Divorce
Preview

Annual
Tune-Up

Wealth
Management & Retirement

Want to see if there's a fit?
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Ready to transform your divorce into a journey of clarity and resolution?

Take the first step toward a dignified transition—reach out today and start building a brighter future.