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Dividing Marital Debt: Why It’s One of the Most Overlooked Risks
When we talk about “dividing the marital estate,” most people think of the home, retirement accounts, investments. But equally important—and often more tricky—is the marital debt: credit cards, personal loans, medical bills, car loans, and hidden liabilities.

Leslie Garske
6 days ago2 min read


Rebuilding Communication in the Midst of Divorce
While the decision to end a marriage is deeply personal and multifaceted, statistical trends show that women are more likely to initiate div

Leslie Garske
Nov 152 min read


Forensic Accounting in Divorce: Finding the Truth Behind the Finances - A Q&A with Matthew Pontiff, CPA/ABV/CFF, CVA
As a former business owner, Matthew understands firsthand the challenges companies face and brings that insight to his management and consulting engagements. His work spans business valuations, litigation support, tax strategy, and business consulting, and he has guided clients through the purchase and sale of businesses of all sizes. He’s also served as an expert witness in numerous civil cases, providing clarity in matters involving economic damages, forensic accounting, an

Leslie Garske
Oct 274 min read


10 Things to Know Before Filing for a DIY Divorce (That Could Save You Time, Money, and Stress)
Here are 10 key things to know before you move forward with a DIY divorce, and why bringing in a neutral divorce mediator and a CDFA® can give you the best of both worlds: afford

Leslie Garske
Sep 194 min read


Fall in Denver: Festivals, Food, and Fun After Mid-September
Fall in Denver is more than just golden leaves—it’s a season of celebration, creativity, and community. Whether you’re sipping Colorado wine, laughing at a comedy show, or braving the haunted house, the city has something for everyone.

Leslie Garske
Sep 52 min read


Think You're Done With Your Divorce Papers? Here's Why You Should Still Have a Professional Review Them
You don’t need to go through a full mediation process or hire a team of attorneys. But you do deserve the confidence that your divorce paperwork is fair, thorough, and built to last.

Leslie Garske
Aug 293 min read


How to Handle Finances During Divorce: Mediation vs. Litigation
If you’re just beginning to explore divorce, you don’t have to jump in blindly. Garske Divorce Mediation offers a unique service called the Divorce Preview.

Leslie Garske
Aug 152 min read


Dividing Retirement in a Gray Divorce: What You Need to Know Before You Sign Anything
Divorce is never easy—but for couples over 50, often called “gray divorce,” the emotional and financial stakes can be especially high. By this stage in life, most couples aren’t arguing about parenting plans or school schedules—they’re focused on how to divide decades’ worth of assets, particularly retirement funds.

Leslie Garske
Jul 173 min read


A Q&A with Nikki Kinghorn of Raising Real World Kids
Discover parenting insights from Nikki Kinghorn of Raising Real World Kids in this inspiring Q&A on raising kind, resilient, and confident children. www.raisingrealworldkids.com

Leslie Garske
Jul 149 min read


Surviving Summer After Divorce: 6 Ways to Thrive (Not Just Cope)
Summer can stir up all kinds of feelings after divorce. Whether you're newly separated or navigating your first warm-weather season as a co-parent, it’s easy to feel out of sync while the rest of the world seems to be sipping cocktails on the beach.

Leslie Garske
Jul 33 min read


The Silent Killer of Marriages: Financial Infidelity (and What to Do If You Discover It)
In fact, a 2021 survey by the National Endowment for Financial Education (NEFE) found that 43% of adults in a relationship admitted to committing some form of financial deception.

Leslie Garske
Jun 212 min read


Navigating a High-Conflict Divorce Involving Narcissistic Behavior
Avoid reacting to every provocation. Stay focused on your values and the kind of future you want to create. With the right approach, you can protect your well-being, your children, and your future.

Leslie Garske
Jun 63 min read


Why Saying the “D-Word” (Divorce) Is So Hard — And How to Talk to Your Spouse About It
Saying the “D-word” doesn’t have to mean war. It can be the first step toward peace for both of you.

Leslie Garske
May 263 min read


Mediation Success Stories: Real-Life Examples of Peaceful Resolutions
If you’re considering divorce and want to avoid conflict, protect your family, and create a healthier future, we’re here to help.

Leslie Garske
May 122 min read


Is Divorce Selfish? A Hard Look at the Judgment Society Places on Divorced People
We need to shift the way we talk about divorce. Instead of framing it as a failure, we should see it as a brave decision to prioritize happi

Leslie Garske
Mar 242 min read


When Your Ex’s New Partner Oversteps
Dealing with a new partner who’s overstepping can be frustrating, but it doesn’t have to lead to conflict. By communicating openly, setting

Leslie Garske
Mar 104 min read


What Is a DIY Divorce – And Is It Right for You?
A DIY Divorce is a self-managed process where both spouses work together to complete and file their divorce paperwork without hiring attorne

Leslie Garske
Feb 173 min read


Dividing Assets: What You Need to Know About Property and Debts
Dividing assets and debts doesn’t have to lead to prolonged arguments or expensive court battles. Mediation provides a neutral, supportive s

Leslie Garske
Feb 172 min read
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