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Choosing the Right Path for Divorce: Mediation or Court?
Making an Informed Choice
Choosing how to divorce is just as important as deciding whether to divorce. The process you choose can shape not only the outcome, but also how you feel during and after it.

Leslie Garske
Jan 212 min read


What to Do If You’ve Been Thinking About Divorce Throughout the Holidays
The turn of the year can feel like a deadline, but it doesn’t have to be. You are allowed to move at a pace that feels right for you.
What matters most is making thoughtful, informed choices — not rushed ones made in the middle of emotional overload.

Leslie Garske
Jan 73 min read


Tax Considerations to Keep in Mind During Divorce
While mediation does not replace the guidance of a financial professional, mediation does provide a supportive environment for spouses to understand their financial picture, ask questions, and make decisions that feel fair, transparent, and sustainable.

Leslie Garske
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Co-Parenting Through the Holidays: Supporting Your Children with Stability, Warmth, and Love
This is where collaborative divorce, divorce mediation, and holiday parenting plans become so valuable. These approaches focus not on conflict, but on cooperation, clarity, and emotional well-being.

Leslie Garske
Dec 11, 20252 min read


Dividing Marital Debt: Why It’s One of the Most Overlooked Risks
When we talk about “dividing the marital estate,” most people think of the home, retirement accounts, investments. But equally important—and often more tricky—is the marital debt: credit cards, personal loans, medical bills, car loans, and hidden liabilities.

Leslie Garske
Nov 28, 20252 min read


Rebuilding Communication in the Midst of Divorce
While the decision to end a marriage is deeply personal and multifaceted, statistical trends show that women are more likely to initiate div

Leslie Garske
Nov 15, 20252 min read


Forensic Accounting in Divorce: Finding the Truth Behind the Finances - A Q&A with Matthew Pontiff, CPA/ABV/CFF, CVA
As a former business owner, Matthew understands firsthand the challenges companies face and brings that insight to his management and consulting engagements. His work spans business valuations, litigation support, tax strategy, and business consulting, and he has guided clients through the purchase and sale of businesses of all sizes. He’s also served as an expert witness in numerous civil cases, providing clarity in matters involving economic damages, forensic accounting, an

Leslie Garske
Oct 27, 20254 min read


10 Things to Know Before Filing for a DIY Divorce (That Could Save You Time, Money, and Stress)
Here are 10 key things to know before you move forward with a DIY divorce, and why bringing in a neutral divorce mediator and a CDFA® can give you the best of both worlds: afford

Leslie Garske
Sep 19, 20254 min read


Fall in Denver: Festivals, Food, and Fun After Mid-September
Fall in Denver is more than just golden leaves—it’s a season of celebration, creativity, and community. Whether you’re sipping Colorado wine, laughing at a comedy show, or braving the haunted house, the city has something for everyone.

Leslie Garske
Sep 5, 20252 min read


Think You're Done With Your Divorce Papers? Here's Why You Should Still Have a Professional Review Them
You don’t need to go through a full mediation process or hire a team of attorneys. But you do deserve the confidence that your divorce paperwork is fair, thorough, and built to last.

Leslie Garske
Aug 29, 20253 min read


How to Handle Finances During Divorce: Mediation vs. Litigation
If you’re just beginning to explore divorce, you don’t have to jump in blindly. Garske Divorce Mediation offers a unique service called the Divorce Preview.

Leslie Garske
Aug 15, 20252 min read


Dividing Retirement in a Gray Divorce: What You Need to Know Before You Sign Anything
Divorce is never easy—but for couples over 50, often called “gray divorce,” the emotional and financial stakes can be especially high. By this stage in life, most couples aren’t arguing about parenting plans or school schedules—they’re focused on how to divide decades’ worth of assets, particularly retirement funds.

Leslie Garske
Jul 17, 20253 min read


A Q&A with Nikki Kinghorn of Raising Real World Kids
Discover parenting insights from Nikki Kinghorn of Raising Real World Kids in this inspiring Q&A on raising kind, resilient, and confident children. www.raisingrealworldkids.com

Leslie Garske
Jul 14, 20259 min read


Surviving Summer After Divorce: 6 Ways to Thrive (Not Just Cope)
Summer can stir up all kinds of feelings after divorce. Whether you're newly separated or navigating your first warm-weather season as a co-parent, it’s easy to feel out of sync while the rest of the world seems to be sipping cocktails on the beach.

Leslie Garske
Jul 3, 20253 min read


The Silent Killer of Marriages: Financial Infidelity (and What to Do If You Discover It)
In fact, a 2021 survey by the National Endowment for Financial Education (NEFE) found that 43% of adults in a relationship admitted to committing some form of financial deception.

Leslie Garske
Jun 21, 20252 min read


Navigating a High-Conflict Divorce Involving Narcissistic Behavior
Avoid reacting to every provocation. Stay focused on your values and the kind of future you want to create. With the right approach, you can protect your well-being, your children, and your future.

Leslie Garske
Jun 6, 20253 min read


Why Saying the “D-Word” (Divorce) Is So Hard — And How to Talk to Your Spouse About It
Saying the “D-word” doesn’t have to mean war. It can be the first step toward peace for both of you.

Leslie Garske
May 26, 20253 min read


Mediation Success Stories: Real-Life Examples of Peaceful Resolutions
If you’re considering divorce and want to avoid conflict, protect your family, and create a healthier future, we’re here to help.

Leslie Garske
May 12, 20252 min read
Mindful Mediation Divorce Resources
Wisdom & Tools for the Journey
Explore our video library of interviews with experts in the divorce field - from therapists, to housing experts, to life coaches. The healing can begin now for you and your family, our hope is that these videos will encourage you on that path.
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